Non-attachment doesn’t mean at all what you are certain you think it means.  It doesn’t mean don’t care or never feel attached!  One must escape from the vicious circle of undue attachment to begin to fathom how loving and joyful detachment truly is! Away from the influences and pressures and obligations of attachment all that is given is in earnest and nothing is conditional!  In however oh so many ways this might upset and upend your transactional world. I say (and I maintain) and I will continue to say that it is better!  There is certainly an absence of fear in the latter and I have no doubt that fear is an integral feature of the former.  How do you love?  Why judge the way that I do?  I love deeply, without undue attachment and without fear. 

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