Any time you have ever looked into a pair of eyes with pure love, it is a pure eternal love that is joyfully celebrated and lives forever — indeed is magnified many times over — in the eternal joy of Kingdom of Heaven. And this is despite anything that might have ensued afterwards – be it awkward, cold, cruel, regrettable, you name it, that you might think might have occurred, or come out of it, or took place, you name it (And you know you do). In other words, no matter how badly (or goodly) you think it all turned out, it didn’t. That complication of negativity, doubt or fear is of no consequence in the eternal store of treasures where it really counts. Why would anybody ever, then, hold themselves back? From purity, that is. We all should hold back from brash physical assertiveness, a quest for possession masquerading as a caring protectiveness (with or without 2nd Amendment gunnery), or whatever presumed noble goodness else. You know, all the euphemisms and projections of control, especially of the overly manly sort. No amount of violence can change this. How does that grab you?