A key lesson in life essential to learn is simply and plainly this: “What I want does not matter in the least”.

it is only a very few who ever get to the level of this lesson in any meaningful way.

Now, this alone will not solve anything; will not bring you any closer. As a matter of fact this can cause despair or depression in certain personality types. The ennoi can seem a gaping nigh impassable dark abyss.

However, if and when one finally learns to decouple what one wants from the illusory “achievement” of happiness, the key is turned and the secrets to the eternal universe are unfolded. True happiness abides in the eternal here and now! Gratitude for everything then cannot be very far behind!