Thinking in generalities about unspecified some ones special:  there was a time when I could have helped you.  Now, I can’t even stretch your mind to stimulate your imagination to the degree where you could go and help yourself in any meaningful way due to all the reflexive, defensive, hateful, fearful, oppositive reactions against, groomed and stoked by the generally assumed [to be lacking] and understood qualities of the ‘woke’.

I’m sorry but I’m not sorry.  One day you’ll figure out for yourself how pulling bootstraps really works.  And it’s all on the journey to the Kingdom of Heaven and we’ll blend well there.